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Why You NEED to Use Emoticons

July 23, 2015 by Ericka

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I have fun with all those fun little emoticon dudes on my iphone sometimes, but mostly I think they are overkill. Unless…

There is an appropriate time and place for emoticons and punctuation and a “ha ha” here and there. I’ll tell you where.

Emails and texts with people you don’t know that well. I seriously need the reinforcement of a smiley face or exclamation point if anything you say could be taken in a negative tone.

I, for example, am a little terrified that someone would take me for a jerk so I supplement all questionable messages with winks, “lols,” exclamation points and plenty of reassurance that I’m truly a nice person.

Perhaps it’s overkill but I’d rather than than be misinterpreted. This happened to me recently via email. Someone I don’t know very well responded to a short message I sent about something I thought was kind of funny. I, of course, included a smiley face, a “ha ha” and an all around friendly vibe in the email.

This person’s response made me feel about as small as a pea. I am most likely taking the tone dramatically wrong but — maybe I’m not. There was no acknowledgment of the humor I found and the response was about three words — emoticons not included.

THUD.

Well that didn’t go so well. And all it would have taken to not make me feel like an idiot was one little, “ha ha” — or SOMETHING.

Do you see what I mean? I know, plenty of people don’t think twice about tone or context in text or email but I do think it’s important to consider. You wouldn’t want someone to find you rude in real conversation by accident so why let that happen in digital conversation? It’s easy to remedy and worth soothing potentially hurt feelings.

So I’m begging of you — please use your emoticons and punctuation regularly and responsibly! And I mean in that in the nicest way possible! ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜‰ ha ha!

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Comments

  1. Rebecca P. says

    July 24, 2015 at 9:14 am

    Haha, I agree! It can help with clarification ๐Ÿ˜‰

  2. Mike Zimmerman says

    July 24, 2015 at 9:26 am

    Email can be easily misinterpreted. You tend to read it in the tone you expect it to be in, or maybe even want it to be in. Short, concise message — like a simple “ok” — are especially vulnerable. Adding an emoticon here and there (or exclamation points: “Thanks!!”) can help get your message received in the way it was intended.

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